I is Ego


It is painful when one keeps finding more and more people finding themselves helpless and conditioned by their own self, family and loved one’s. People keep struggling to hate them, fight with them, be angry with them, be less talking to them but as time passes one see’s somehow that pain and hatred has lessened and when the time is closer people start coming closer.

It is this coming closer at the closing times that actually creates more pain and suffering for the people for they realise the time they have lost for all hatred, anger and biased talks and silence.

This closing in reminds of the way AcaryaGuru Swami Chidananda Bharti ji used to say “When you eat, often a small piece of food gets in between the side tooth in such a manner that your focus and attention goes there even after you have finished washing the mouth. Your Tongue brings your focus to the piece of food keeping your mind quite busy there. The issue is prominent for you and it becomes a priority, your tongue is always struggling to dislodge the piece of food stuck there. The world around you would be there but your attention, focus, interest and area would be the priority of dislodging the food. You can take the food piece out later but your mind is completely in focus for it becomes an ego for you. Ego says the tiny food is stuck there and you the owner of the body is not able to remove it. The moment you do after a long struggle and jaw ache, you are at peace, but then the world in that moment has changed. You lost the world during that period of time.”

The world in its ego of possessiveness and control forget what they are losing out and how that losing out will effect them. One can be angry, hating or struggling between the choices of “I”, “Me” and “Myself” wherein the choices and biasness is to be made between the loved one’s. The more one remains biased the more the mind would be busy draining the energy and strength of the individual. It is quite a struggle between choice of better right one’s and little wrong one’s, any decision be it with the right one’s or wrong one’s both choices will only be resulting in pain for the one who is making the choice as well as for those who are affected by the decisions.

It is natural that when Ego’s are clashing at emotional levels in family or loved one’s, the individual Ego is both elevated as well as suppressed at the same moment of time causing one to get into a state of helplessness and distress. A decision at this moment if taken in unbiased and ego-less state will instantly harm the relations for that shall become uncontrollable emotional chaos. The course of action should be allowing the ‘I’ of Ego to merge within and surrender, if any action is taken it is dangerous, if inaction is there it too shall be dangerous. Merging and Surrender does not mean inaction or action, it is a state of allowing the force to become normal and then slowly allow the flow of peace and solution in a unbiased manner through a balanced state of action as well as inaction at right moments and time within a constrained framework of space.

This is the most important way but also most cruel way, it is a way of detached attached manner of working through the path of truth. This is a way where you have to transcend over and above your own emotions, which at times looks very cruel but it is the only way of detached-attached manner for the way allows one to walk a manner which can allows the adjustment, manipulations and suppression to give way to infinite love, peace, acceptance and a life full of liveliness.

Soul Searchers intends to raise the consciousness of people and to help create a turning point on this planet—a world where people are in tune with their inner-selves, living healthy and creative lives and are no longer swayed by religious dogma or politics.  The purpose is to bring the state of righteousness (dharma) back again in current state of political turmoil and selfishly motivated people.  We believe the truth can be known and realised through guided and workable ways. Thousands have benefited from the process of initiation and share them with your friends and family and together we’ll touch and transform lives. 


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Published by Maitreya

Walking the path of self is a condition but being on the path of selflessness brings one about to the pathless way. Come on the way of knowing the way and in the process bring about a change within to get liberated.

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